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I happen to have a preference for older women. Not old. Just older. I realize this goes against many men's belief that younger is better but my preference is well rooted.

It's the media and our programming as males that bias our view towards the younger women. There's this and the ego of men who confuse "harder to get" with "better". Well, that will only get you so far and if so, maybe it's time for a wake up call if you find yourself constantly pining for the young "hotties".

My best experiences were with older women. The intelligent, high self-esteem, takes good care of herself, variety. It's a combination of all around physical and mental maturity that makes them the better pick over their younger sisters. You know those younger girls I'm talking about; those expressionless, all done up, Barbie doll types. They don't have much to say, often times - a bit scarce in the social skills department.

For many men, their egos (and Maxim) tell them that the young ones are the ones to go for, but let's look at some logic here. They are usually less experienced, more whimsical. Their bodies are not as matured. In fact, their bodies are only HINTING at the shape they'll eventually have - that body shape of a women who is sexually peaked, who is in her thirties (sometimes forties), and knows what she wants and likes.

Also, from an evolutionary perspective, women 30+ have less reproductive time left so it makes sense for their bodies to ramp-up the attractiveness to attract mates. And naturally, their interest in sex goes up, and so does their tendency to initiate sex. Can't afford passivity at this point. And this, combined with more world experience, and fun personality, defines true sexiness in my book.

© 2007 Jakob Bachman

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